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DIVINE LOVE AND THE NEW EARTH channeled message by Regina Sisco

3-20-22 Channeled message from Divine Mother 

Here is link to the full 3-20 Spring Equinox Meditation and channeled messages:  https://youtu.be/EADXIv1ayqw

My dear children, it is I, your Divine Mother.  I am overjoyed to be with you this evening.  I am delighted to be with you this evening.  The frequencies of Divine Love are becoming stronger within each of you, and in turn they are becoming stronger within the Earth.  This allows the higher frequencies to be anchored more and more within the Earth.  This allows the frequencies of the Divine Feminine to be anchored within the Earth. This is the time; this is the season of fertility. This is when the womb calls forth new life. This is when the womb of Divine Mother calls for creativity, new life, birth, regeneration of all that is meant to grow, to expand, and to multiply. The womb of the feminine creates all. The womb of the feminine is the essence of life.  The womb of the feminine is the transformation of the Divine Love portal.

So, as you see, this breaking down of your old systems of these dark energies being destroyed and exposed, this makes way for new life to come in.  This makes way for the anchoring of the Divine Feminine to move through you, anchoring into the Earth to restore the much-needed balance of life on this Earth and within this Earth.

The energies of Love, the energies of creativity, of purity, of wisdom, beauty and grace, to bring in the balance of what this old paradigm, this old outdated system of the Dark that manipulated the Divine Masculine and patriarchy and it was attempted, not successful but attempted, to obliterate, subjugate, hide, mislead the power and truth of the Divine Feminine, this of course shall not stand!  The healing that is required is deep, yes.  These old systems are crumbling down, and the healing and the restoration of the Divine Feminine is rising forth, like the phoenix, like the beautiful Goddess, restoring these beautiful energies, bringing in the needed balance, as the Divine Masculine must be restored as well.

So, you see, the subjugation of the feminine most definitely occurred, but the reality is, the subjugation of the masculine has also occurred.  It is time to heal both.  It is time for the masculine to be healed; for the balance of the masculine to be restored.  Yes, the masculine can be the warrior, but the masculine can also create, and protect, and to be wise, and cultivate communities, not control communities, cultivate communities; cultivate the Oneness, cultivate this Divine partnership of creativity and unity consciousness, creating the flourishing of communities, not manipulating, controlling and destroying communities.

My dear ones, I share this truth with you because it is time; it this time for this to be exposed.  It’s time for the Light of Love to shine the Light of the Truth of Divine Masculine and Feminine, cultivating these Sacred energies, Sacred union of Divine Masculine and Feminine within yourselves, and within your societies.  Oh yes, it’s a big job indeed, but you all are in process.   You are magnificent Light beings.  You are in process.  You have been learning to support each other- Divine Feminine and Masculine, understanding more and more a balance of these energies within yourself, but accepting these, understanding these, in relationship and then in greater society.

These are the energies of the New Earth!  There will be no war.  There will be no violence.  There will be no weapons on the New Earth.  This is a cultivation of balance, of beauty, of sharing, in ways that you have yet to experience in this life, or many lives.  In the higher realms, this is how we exist, and you will remember that this is the New Earth, and you are each creating and cultivating this.  I am so grateful. My deepest love to you.  I hold you tenderly.  I am your Divine Mother.

PEACE WITHIN YOU BY LORD BUDDHA channeled by Regina Sisco

Channeled message from Lord Buddha March 9, 2022 through Regina Sisco

 

My dear brothers and sisters, it is I Lord Buddha, and I am overjoyed to be with you this evening; honored to be in your presence of those who carry this high frequency of Divine Love, of Purity and Innocence and Grace.  As you know, Peace happens within you.  Cultivating peace within yourself creates the ripple effect for peace around your planet.

I would like you to focus on the Sacred space within your heart – to your triple heart flame.  See it expand to your upper chest area.  I will be sharing a chant with you that you may use to bring Peace back to yourself when needed, and through intention, this may also be anchored into the Earth, into the ley lines, into the Christ Consciousness grid to expand the essence of Peace for all. CHANT BEGINS HERE:

I am the Light. I am the Love.  I am the Peace within myself.  I am the Light. I am the Love.  I am the Peace within myself.  I am the Light. I am the Love.  I am the Peace within myself…. and you are welcome to join me …..  I am the Light.  I am the Love.  I am the Peace within myself.  I am the Light. I am the Love. I am the Peace within myself.  I am the Light.  I am the Love.  I am the Peace within myself.  I am the Light.  I am my Love.  I am the Peace within myself.  I am the Light.  I am the Love.  I am the Peace within the All.  

The Peace is within YOU!  It is nurtured and nourished by YOU.  Peace is cultivated by your choices, by your actions, just as you cultivate joy.  Peace within you, equanimity within you is equally as important as it assists you to maintain the higher vibration, higher frequency, providing stabilization that is needed during these times.  Peace within you is another aspect of the All, and as you are fully aware – You are One with the All and the All is One with you.   You are one with the Peace and the Peace is One with You. You are One with the All and the All is One with You.  You are One with the Peace, and the Peace is One with You. 

My Love and Gratitude to you, dear brothers and sisters for your commitment, for your loving and peaceful heart, to share and anchor these energies for all of your brothers and sisters, and the earth and beyond.  My love to you, I am Lord Buddha.

 

Expectations From Others Can Diminish Your Authentic Self

There is no pressure to be anything or anyone other than who you are and that’s what being your Authentic Self means. Though it often feels like others would like us to be something different doesn’t it? And that means being inauthentic and not being true to yourself.

In my first marriage I felt like I had to change- there was an expectation outside of me (from ex-spouse) that I had to be someone different than who I was. That expectation felt like pressure and that I wasn’t good enough.

The pressure came from outside of me. I then put pressure on myself because I wasn’t meeting someone else’s expectations of me. I took that expectation to mean I was unlovable and would be rejected, which I later learned was an unhealthy family pattern.

I had to please others (primarily my mother) to be loved or at least accepted, otherwise I felt unworthy and unwanted. This was an unhealthy pattern to grow up in to say the least and provided lots of opportunity for personal growth! Having expectations of yourself and others creates pain and suffering and a lack of self-love. It felt to me that I was always behind the curve, not good enough, not loveable…always striving to be seen and loved…too much pressure.

I was striving to be loved not knowing that the void was a lack of self-love and that was the love that mattered most along with self-acceptance. I would describe expectations as unrealistic demands that can create pressure and a lack of joy.

When you are able to let go of self-expectations – those unreasonable demands, then that takes the pressure off. Here are a few tips:

!. Can you identify the demand? Is it time, or proving yourself or pleasing someone else? This process begins to create self-awareness and with practice will help you to shift your perspective in the future.

2. Turn your new awareness into an intention that you practice daily. For example, “I am free of the need to prove myself to anyone. I am worthy and deserving. I love myself completely.”

3.  Breathe this into your being. I recommend journaling about this intention. How would my life be better if I were free of the need of having to prove myself? This will be a revealing step for you.

As you become more aware of expectations from others and the ones you place on yourself, that will shift the feeling of pressure and not measuring up in some way. It will also alleviate feeling unworthy and unlovable.

The commitment becomes accepting all of who you are right now and loving yourself in this present moment always. That is how you become and embrace your Authentic Self.

Love,

Regina

Regina Sisco is a channel for the higher realms including the Elemental Kingdom, a Multi-dimensional Healer and Spiritual Life Coach helping her clients to Become their Authentic Selves.

Are You Loveable? 4 Tips to Help You Feel Loveable – Part 4

womanleapinginairSee my previous blog

Here are some Relationship Indicators to let you know if you don’t feel loveable or deep down really don’t believe you deserve to be loved.

  1.  Do you feel insecure or needy when it comes to relationship? Do you hear yourself saying “I need someone to love me?” Or “Why am I still alone.”

Tip #4

Don’t be too hard on yourself if that is where your thoughts are in that particular moment. What could be some solutions to help you shift how you are feeling?

The feelings of neediness and insecurity come from unresolved issues of the past and any level of resolution that you can have with the past will be helpful.

If your needs were not met in a past relationship—and even with your parents, this lets you know that it is your job to meet your own needs, it’s not anyone else’s including a prospective partner. It’s your job to take care of yourself- physically, emotionally, spiritually and financially.

You can start meeting your needs by making decisions that feel good to you. Don’t just jump into things you really don’t want to do or that don’t feel good to you –especially to please someone else. I assure you that you are worthy of Love. And a real friend or partner will love you no matter what.

This is about you taking care of yourself. Practice things like self-kindness, positive self-talk, self-compassion. When you start paying attention and  making choices that feel good, your ‘neediness’ decreases because you are taking care of yourself. When you take care of yourself you are feeling better and better about you and your life. This also diminishes your insecurities because when you make good decisions it builds your self-confidence!

If you are alone right now- enjoy it. Nothing lasts forever, things always change and evolve.  The happier you are will allow you to attract a partner who is positive and happy too! Wouldn’t that feel fabulous?

 

 Regina Sisco is a certified Life & Relationship Coach. She is an expert with helping people transform their relationship suffering into self-acceptance and relationship bliss. Sign-up for my Free Gift! The Magic Touch – 5 Secrets To Successful Dating Tips on this page.

 

 

Are You Loveable? 4 Tips to Help You Feel Loveable – Part 3

forgiveSee my previous blog

Here are some Relationship Indicators to let you know if you don’t feel loveable or deep down really don’t believe you deserve to be loved.

  1.  When you feel the relationship is getting hard and communication is difficult for you, do you sabotage the relationship (have bad behavior like saying or doing something cruel) so the other person will end it?

Tip #3

There can be so much to say about Question 3. I have talked with several clients who have been on the receiving end of this behavior and those who have done it.

Someone who is unable to communicate how they feel is afraid, deeply afraid of being hurt. They are unable to take responsibility for their behavior and feelings, so they act out and force the other person to take the action. This person is in need of deep compassion. Not that I am suggesting that you stay with him/her, I would not recommend that at all. The healthiest thing is to end the relationship and move on.

If you are the person who is struggling, the better approach with integrity, is to end/exit the relationship without the hurtful words or behavior. Understand that you have deep seeded issues that are toxic. Bouncing from relationship to relationship is extremely unhealthy and you likely have the belief that you don’t deserve to be loved and you’re afraid of doing any type of self-reflection to heal so that you are able to raise your self-esteem, self-respect and self-confidence.

Without at least an average (and ideally above average) feeling of these three characteristics I listed above, connecting with another in a meaningful way and expressing healthy love will not be possible.

How can you start turning this around and allow yourself to be and feel loveable?

It is probable that you have had some hurtful experiences in the past that have not been healed. You may be blaming yourself, the other person or people, and you may feel shame. These are two very powerful feelings that reinforce low self-esteem and self-worth. Being able to forgive yourself and others is one of the most beneficial ways to free yourself from pain and suffering. When you are in that state of pain and suffering you can feel disconnected from your true self, which creates lack of clarity.

In the Hawaiian culture they have a technique called “Ho’oponopono” which they use to forgive and seek healing and freedom. Think of the person you were hurt by and repeat:

I’m Sorry, Please Forgive Me, Thank You, I Love You.

And you may be thinking, “Regina, I was hurt by that other person, why would I say I’m sorry.” Because this is a higher spiritual principle and there is probably something you want to be forgiven for also.

Repeat this phrase/mantra over and over again until you feel lighter.

“I’m Sorry, Please Forgive Me, Thank You, I Love You.”

If you have time to do it 10-15 minutes a day would be good. This may take several days, or weeks, it really depends on you and your focus. It does take focus and a willingness to be free of the pain and suffering. It works.

I will use this when I hear of something negative on the news to help shift the energy of that particular situation.

It’s time to free yourself and let yourself feel loved!

  

Regina Sisco is a certified Life & Relationship Coach. She is an expert with helping people transform their relationship suffering into self-acceptance and relationship bliss. Sign-up for my Free Gift! The Magic Touch – 5 Secrets To Successful Dating Tips on this page.

 

Are You Loveable? 4 Tips to Help You Feel Loveable – Part 2

heart candlesSee my previous blog

Here are some Relationship Indicators to let you know if you don’t feel loveable or deep down really don’t believe you deserve to be loved.

  1. Do you need to be in charge? Do you make all the arrangements? Do you ask for input from your partner? Or better still, do you dismiss the input from your partner?

Tip #2

It’s all about love isn’t it? What does loving behavior look like to you? How is love communicated? How does it feel?

The questions above describe someone with a ‘controlling’ personality or at least a strong ‘controlling’ characteristic. Someone who has to know it all, have all the answers, tells others what to do without asking or getting input. You have met that type of person before, right? You may have even been married to one? If you are perfectly honest, you have had some of those behaviors yourself too. Some of the time it is normal:  most of us have a little of that.

However, when it is overpowering, it is out of balance and a less than ideal way of treating another person. It’s disrespectful and inconsiderate. Why do some people behave that way? The short answer is they don’t love themselves very much. They are insecure and full of self-doubt. The controlling behavior is a mask to feel ‘strong’ because inside he/she does not feel that way at all.

Here are few tips to help change this behavior if you have these. Start by being kind to yourself. What is it that you don’t like about yourself? You might ask ‘How do I know what that is?’ Here’s an example. You might know someone that drives you crazy. What is it about that person that drives you crazy? That trait is something you have within yourself that you don’t like about you. Here’s the good news — you can change it!

Maybe your friend doesn’t listen and talks over people. This drives you crazy. Pay attention- do you do that to people? The answer is probably yes, or you do something similar. If you don’t like being treated that way, then don’t treat someone else that way. Make a new choice — this will require some positive self-talk “I am going to be patient when listening to others.” “I am going to slow down and be present, I am interested in what this person is sharing with me.” “I intend to listen with an open mind and not be judgmental or critical.” This is how you create change for the better and how you can change the things that you don’t like about yourself. Make new choices about how you want to feel in your life. Treat yourself better as well as the people around you.

Ask questions in a relationship, have dialogue, and ask for input. Asking questions and communicating is not a weakness:  its called consideration. When you treat yourself in a loving way, you will treat others in a loving way and will be treated that way in return. Love isn’t about control, it’s about sharing. And isn’t that what you seek, sharing and intimacy on all levels?

 

Regina Sisco is a certified Life & Relationship Coach. She is an expert with helping people transform their relationship suffering into self-acceptance and relationship bliss. Sign-up for my Free Gift! The Magic Touch – 5 Secrets To Successful Dating Tips.

 

February The Month Of Love 28 Days Of Divine Love Inspiration

heart background    We all know February is the month of Love. Yes it’s about romantic love and sharing that love with another. And it’s also about loving yourself, because if you don’t have a high level of self-love then you won’t have the amazing high quality relationship that you seek if you are single. If you are in a love relationship, this month is an excellent time to renew and rejuvenate your intimacy, communication, and how you treat each other. This month you can set  “the bar” that you hold your relationship up to all year.

I am so excited to share my Divine Love Inspiration with you this month.

 

Day One – Love Inspiration – Trusting Love

The foundation of every relationship is trust and it needs to be nurtured all the time. You need to develop trust for yourself everyday and if you are in a relationship or want to be in a relationship trust needs to be cultivated daily with your partner.

Why is that? Because most people have been hurt or betrayed somewhere in life, and yes this heals over time but the old wound can be triggered unknowingly at the blink of an eye. Trust provides reassurance when old fears come up. You’ve heard the phrase “actions speak louder than words.” To sustain and grow trust in a relationship your loving actions will show your partner how much you mean to them. And if you are single your loving actions to yourself reinforces your own self-love and self-trust and that is priceless!

Regina Sisco is a Relationship Coach and Divine Matchmaker™ who enjoys helping others bring more love into their lives. Her website is www.reginasisco.com and her email is [email protected].

 

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Are You Ready To Date?

After a major break-up or divorce it takes time to heal and regain your equilibrium.  Many of my clients tell me that they want to be in a relationship again or be married again soon after the relationship has ended.  That’s a pleasant idea for down the road… but not too soon.

It’s important to give yourself time to heal and give yourself some perspective on what really happened.  He left you, you left him, and life goes on right? Yes it certainly does but what about the quality of your life?  What about the quality of your future relationship(s)?  That should matter to you.  We all know women and men who seem to hop from one relationship to the next without giving themselves time to assess—to really look at what worked and what didn’t work in the relationship.

We all have behavior patterns that are healthy and some that are not healthy at all, especially when it comes to relationships. Here are a few questions to reflect on:

–         Do you date the same type of person over and over?

–         How do you expect to be treated?

–         What do you want out of the relationship?

If you are ready for a committed relationship these things are important to consider.  What do you really want out of a relationship? Fun? Sex? Companionship?  Do you want commitment, intimacy, mutual support, respect and deep love?  If you do you have now just crossed over the line into work and commitment in the relationship to have that true divine union, trust, love, intimacy, and joy. It takes work, you have to know yourself and what you truly want in a relationship. It takes a mutual exchange and a mutual level of commitment – that give and take to support each other in your own individual growth and then as a couple.

The “knowing who you are and what you want” is critical. Women can sometimes loose themselves in the relationship and in their partner and no longer know who they are.  Before dating, be prepared– really to do your homework. There is nothing more important than your personal happiness!

 

Regina Sisco is a Relationship Wellness Expert and national internet Radio Show Host of Shining Bright on VoiceAmerica.com. For more information go to www.lifestreamholisticcoaching.com

Self-Respect

I have a client who wasn’t allowing herself to be treated respectfully in a relationship.  She thought she wasn’t good enough to have a man treat her well.  Since she didn’t value or respect herself, she sought men who treated her the same.  She became aware of her choices that she allowed men in, who in her words were “barely adequate.”  She realized that she viewed herself the same way and knew she had some inner work to do.

Why did she value herself so poorly?  She realized that the childhood abuse created many beliefs and programs that she wasn’t good enough or didn’t deserve much, and that’s how she began living her life. She didn’t deserve much, her own personal worth and value was low.  How did she begin to create the shift for herself?  She started letting go of the past by forgiving those in childhood and perhaps the tougher road of forgiving herself.

Then, I shared some techniques with her to help her release this old program of not valuing herself and to restore her self-esteem and self-respect.  She is fully aware now that her choices matter and that she matters.  When she settled based on past experiences she didn’t receive much.  Now as she is becoming more aware that she is not willing to settle with herself or in a relationship. She understands that she has more work to do.

She has a higher level of self-worth and wants to attract a better quality of life and men.  She respects herself more and sees that she is the driver and creator of her life. She is regaining her power and can now see the path before her.  She is reconnecting to her true self and beginning to allow self love in.

And take a deep breath- breathe that in-

Affirmations:  affirmations are positive statements to read and say outlook to help you maintain a positive outlook.

I know what it feels like to respect myself.  I am opening the door to self-love.

 

Regina Sisco is a Relationship Wellness Expert and national internet Radio Show Host of Shining Bright on VoiceAmerica.com. For more information go to www.lifestreamholisticcoaching.com

Laughter, Fun and Play

ImageI hope you are enjoying your summer!  Do you remember being a kid and how summers seemed to last forever?  Now as an adult they certainly seem to be zooming by!  I wanted to remind you how good laughter is for us, and sometimes how we might forget to laugh.  I find it amusing when I can laugh at myself for the some of the crazy things I decide to do like listening to my self-critic!  That’s always a good indicator to me, when my self-critic is talking loud, to step back and laugh with myself.  As adults we can all take “things” so seriously, it’s that reminder to have fun and play especially now in the summer.  Even when I’m not really sure what all those “things” are!

I love going for a hike and walking by water, it’s so refreshing and cleansing.  Breathing in fresh air, sitting by the water and enjoying nature.  This is one of my favorite things to do it’s relaxing, revitalizing and fun all in one visit.

It’s important to take time for self-rejuvenation, and being out in nature is one of the best ways to do that.  Do something fun this weekend and enjoy the laughter!

Regina Sisco is a Relationship Wellness Expert and national internet Radio Show Host of Shining Bright on VoiceAmerica.com. For more information go to www.lifestreamholisticcoaching.com