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DIVINE LOVE AND THE NEW EARTH channeled message by Regina Sisco

3-20-22 Channeled message from Divine Mother 

Here is link to the full 3-20 Spring Equinox Meditation and channeled messages:  https://youtu.be/EADXIv1ayqw

My dear children, it is I, your Divine Mother.  I am overjoyed to be with you this evening.  I am delighted to be with you this evening.  The frequencies of Divine Love are becoming stronger within each of you, and in turn they are becoming stronger within the Earth.  This allows the higher frequencies to be anchored more and more within the Earth.  This allows the frequencies of the Divine Feminine to be anchored within the Earth. This is the time; this is the season of fertility. This is when the womb calls forth new life. This is when the womb of Divine Mother calls for creativity, new life, birth, regeneration of all that is meant to grow, to expand, and to multiply. The womb of the feminine creates all. The womb of the feminine is the essence of life.  The womb of the feminine is the transformation of the Divine Love portal.

So, as you see, this breaking down of your old systems of these dark energies being destroyed and exposed, this makes way for new life to come in.  This makes way for the anchoring of the Divine Feminine to move through you, anchoring into the Earth to restore the much-needed balance of life on this Earth and within this Earth.

The energies of Love, the energies of creativity, of purity, of wisdom, beauty and grace, to bring in the balance of what this old paradigm, this old outdated system of the Dark that manipulated the Divine Masculine and patriarchy and it was attempted, not successful but attempted, to obliterate, subjugate, hide, mislead the power and truth of the Divine Feminine, this of course shall not stand!  The healing that is required is deep, yes.  These old systems are crumbling down, and the healing and the restoration of the Divine Feminine is rising forth, like the phoenix, like the beautiful Goddess, restoring these beautiful energies, bringing in the needed balance, as the Divine Masculine must be restored as well.

So, you see, the subjugation of the feminine most definitely occurred, but the reality is, the subjugation of the masculine has also occurred.  It is time to heal both.  It is time for the masculine to be healed; for the balance of the masculine to be restored.  Yes, the masculine can be the warrior, but the masculine can also create, and protect, and to be wise, and cultivate communities, not control communities, cultivate communities; cultivate the Oneness, cultivate this Divine partnership of creativity and unity consciousness, creating the flourishing of communities, not manipulating, controlling and destroying communities.

My dear ones, I share this truth with you because it is time; it this time for this to be exposed.  It’s time for the Light of Love to shine the Light of the Truth of Divine Masculine and Feminine, cultivating these Sacred energies, Sacred union of Divine Masculine and Feminine within yourselves, and within your societies.  Oh yes, it’s a big job indeed, but you all are in process.   You are magnificent Light beings.  You are in process.  You have been learning to support each other- Divine Feminine and Masculine, understanding more and more a balance of these energies within yourself, but accepting these, understanding these, in relationship and then in greater society.

These are the energies of the New Earth!  There will be no war.  There will be no violence.  There will be no weapons on the New Earth.  This is a cultivation of balance, of beauty, of sharing, in ways that you have yet to experience in this life, or many lives.  In the higher realms, this is how we exist, and you will remember that this is the New Earth, and you are each creating and cultivating this.  I am so grateful. My deepest love to you.  I hold you tenderly.  I am your Divine Mother.

Are You Loveable? 4 Tips to Help You Feel Loveable – Part 3

forgiveSee my previous blog

Here are some Relationship Indicators to let you know if you don’t feel loveable or deep down really don’t believe you deserve to be loved.

  1.  When you feel the relationship is getting hard and communication is difficult for you, do you sabotage the relationship (have bad behavior like saying or doing something cruel) so the other person will end it?

Tip #3

There can be so much to say about Question 3. I have talked with several clients who have been on the receiving end of this behavior and those who have done it.

Someone who is unable to communicate how they feel is afraid, deeply afraid of being hurt. They are unable to take responsibility for their behavior and feelings, so they act out and force the other person to take the action. This person is in need of deep compassion. Not that I am suggesting that you stay with him/her, I would not recommend that at all. The healthiest thing is to end the relationship and move on.

If you are the person who is struggling, the better approach with integrity, is to end/exit the relationship without the hurtful words or behavior. Understand that you have deep seeded issues that are toxic. Bouncing from relationship to relationship is extremely unhealthy and you likely have the belief that you don’t deserve to be loved and you’re afraid of doing any type of self-reflection to heal so that you are able to raise your self-esteem, self-respect and self-confidence.

Without at least an average (and ideally above average) feeling of these three characteristics I listed above, connecting with another in a meaningful way and expressing healthy love will not be possible.

How can you start turning this around and allow yourself to be and feel loveable?

It is probable that you have had some hurtful experiences in the past that have not been healed. You may be blaming yourself, the other person or people, and you may feel shame. These are two very powerful feelings that reinforce low self-esteem and self-worth. Being able to forgive yourself and others is one of the most beneficial ways to free yourself from pain and suffering. When you are in that state of pain and suffering you can feel disconnected from your true self, which creates lack of clarity.

In the Hawaiian culture they have a technique called “Ho’oponopono” which they use to forgive and seek healing and freedom. Think of the person you were hurt by and repeat:

I’m Sorry, Please Forgive Me, Thank You, I Love You.

And you may be thinking, “Regina, I was hurt by that other person, why would I say I’m sorry.” Because this is a higher spiritual principle and there is probably something you want to be forgiven for also.

Repeat this phrase/mantra over and over again until you feel lighter.

“I’m Sorry, Please Forgive Me, Thank You, I Love You.”

If you have time to do it 10-15 minutes a day would be good. This may take several days, or weeks, it really depends on you and your focus. It does take focus and a willingness to be free of the pain and suffering. It works.

I will use this when I hear of something negative on the news to help shift the energy of that particular situation.

It’s time to free yourself and let yourself feel loved!

  

Regina Sisco is a certified Life & Relationship Coach. She is an expert with helping people transform their relationship suffering into self-acceptance and relationship bliss. Sign-up for my Free Gift! The Magic Touch – 5 Secrets To Successful Dating Tips on this page.

 

Are You Loveable? 4 Tips to Help You Feel Loveable – Part 2

heart candlesSee my previous blog

Here are some Relationship Indicators to let you know if you don’t feel loveable or deep down really don’t believe you deserve to be loved.

  1. Do you need to be in charge? Do you make all the arrangements? Do you ask for input from your partner? Or better still, do you dismiss the input from your partner?

Tip #2

It’s all about love isn’t it? What does loving behavior look like to you? How is love communicated? How does it feel?

The questions above describe someone with a ‘controlling’ personality or at least a strong ‘controlling’ characteristic. Someone who has to know it all, have all the answers, tells others what to do without asking or getting input. You have met that type of person before, right? You may have even been married to one? If you are perfectly honest, you have had some of those behaviors yourself too. Some of the time it is normal:  most of us have a little of that.

However, when it is overpowering, it is out of balance and a less than ideal way of treating another person. It’s disrespectful and inconsiderate. Why do some people behave that way? The short answer is they don’t love themselves very much. They are insecure and full of self-doubt. The controlling behavior is a mask to feel ‘strong’ because inside he/she does not feel that way at all.

Here are few tips to help change this behavior if you have these. Start by being kind to yourself. What is it that you don’t like about yourself? You might ask ‘How do I know what that is?’ Here’s an example. You might know someone that drives you crazy. What is it about that person that drives you crazy? That trait is something you have within yourself that you don’t like about you. Here’s the good news — you can change it!

Maybe your friend doesn’t listen and talks over people. This drives you crazy. Pay attention- do you do that to people? The answer is probably yes, or you do something similar. If you don’t like being treated that way, then don’t treat someone else that way. Make a new choice — this will require some positive self-talk “I am going to be patient when listening to others.” “I am going to slow down and be present, I am interested in what this person is sharing with me.” “I intend to listen with an open mind and not be judgmental or critical.” This is how you create change for the better and how you can change the things that you don’t like about yourself. Make new choices about how you want to feel in your life. Treat yourself better as well as the people around you.

Ask questions in a relationship, have dialogue, and ask for input. Asking questions and communicating is not a weakness:  its called consideration. When you treat yourself in a loving way, you will treat others in a loving way and will be treated that way in return. Love isn’t about control, it’s about sharing. And isn’t that what you seek, sharing and intimacy on all levels?

 

Regina Sisco is a certified Life & Relationship Coach. She is an expert with helping people transform their relationship suffering into self-acceptance and relationship bliss. Sign-up for my Free Gift! The Magic Touch – 5 Secrets To Successful Dating Tips.

 

February The Month Of Love 28 Days Of Divine Love Inspiration

heart background    We all know February is the month of Love. Yes it’s about romantic love and sharing that love with another. And it’s also about loving yourself, because if you don’t have a high level of self-love then you won’t have the amazing high quality relationship that you seek if you are single. If you are in a love relationship, this month is an excellent time to renew and rejuvenate your intimacy, communication, and how you treat each other. This month you can set  “the bar” that you hold your relationship up to all year.

I am so excited to share my Divine Love Inspiration with you this month.

 

Day One – Love Inspiration – Trusting Love

The foundation of every relationship is trust and it needs to be nurtured all the time. You need to develop trust for yourself everyday and if you are in a relationship or want to be in a relationship trust needs to be cultivated daily with your partner.

Why is that? Because most people have been hurt or betrayed somewhere in life, and yes this heals over time but the old wound can be triggered unknowingly at the blink of an eye. Trust provides reassurance when old fears come up. You’ve heard the phrase “actions speak louder than words.” To sustain and grow trust in a relationship your loving actions will show your partner how much you mean to them. And if you are single your loving actions to yourself reinforces your own self-love and self-trust and that is priceless!

Regina Sisco is a Relationship Coach and Divine Matchmaker™ who enjoys helping others bring more love into their lives. Her website is www.reginasisco.com and her email is [email protected].

 

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Focusing on the Positive

In this video I talk about focusing on the positive. It’s always helpful to practice feeling good, hopeful and optimistic. I know a lot of us do, so when we have our down days focus on something that feels good like your kids, pets, friends or a favorite song. The longer you can focus on the “the feeling good,” the longer you can sustain it. Enjoy! Regina

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