laughter – Regina Sisco

Being in the Presence of Love?

February 16, 2014/in companionship, dating, Finding Love, Healthy Relationships, Inspiration, intimacy, laughter, partnership, relationships, romance, spirituality, transformation specialist/by admin

Do you know what being in the presence of love feels like? It feels like honor, trust and surety. You are with a person you can rely on, someone who supports you no matter what is happening. Your partner doesn’t always have to agree with you, or even fully understand your position on something but knowing he/she is always there for you is the presence of love.

It’s a gift knowing you can have someone who shines their light for you and you for them. No one has to be right or wrong, it can be just what is – an experience in this moment in time when you or your partner are growing or releasing some old pattern that is no longer useful.

Being in the presence of love is holding the space of love for your partner and yourself – which may be a bit more challenging. The presence and space of love is no judgment or guilt or doubt. It is a space where all things are possible. Imagine what this feels like — a safe space for love.

Regina Sisco is a Relationship Coach and Divine Matchmaker™ who enjoys helping others to release fear and bring more love into their lives. Her website is www.reginasisco.com and her email is [email protected].

Is Tenderness The Same As Intimacy?

February 15, 2014/in companionship, dating, Finding Love, Healthy Relationships, Inspiration, intimacy, laughter, relationships, romance, self love/by admin

Do you know how to express tenderness in a relationship? Is tenderness the same as intimacy? Let’s say they go hand in hand. It’s letting yourself feel vulnerable and connected to your partner and with yourself. I know many women and men who do not like to feel vulnerable. It’s not safe, they feel too open and in the past when they have cared that much they were hurt and the wound was deep.

Does that mean you will never let yourself be vulnerable again or allow yourself to share an intimate tender moment with a partner? I certainly hope not because you are cutting yourself off from love – from giving and receiving love. You wouldn’t want to miss that tender touch, that brush of his or her lips across your neck, the melting of stress and the “yes” to love would you?

I hope your response is of course not! Life is to short not to experience the joys, the tenderness and the surprises of love. Saying yes to love takes courage and a commitment to your personal happiness.

Regina Sisco is a Relationship Coach and Divine Matchmaker™ who enjoys helping others to release fear and bring more love into their lives. Her website is www.reginasisco.com and her email is [email protected].

Focusing on the Positive

August 1, 2013/in laughter, self love/by admin

For The One I Love (here or on the way)

February 14, 2013/in companionship, dating, Finding Love, Healthy Relationships, intimacy, laughter, partnership, relationships, romance, trust yourself/by admin

Happy Valentine’s Day!

I wish you all love today! Those in relationship, seeking a relationship or happily single. Love starts with you by appreciating yourself, your gifts and talents, by choosing positive thoughts and expressing positive thoughts to yourself and others. It takes real intention and focus to practice the positive. You can do this by being kind to yourself and having compassion for yourself when you mess up. It happens. We don’t have to dwell on it – we can let go and forgive ourselves. Practice compassion.

This holds true for how you treat your partner as well. If you are seeking a partner by practicing these actions now for yourself you will automatically treat your new partner in that same respectful way. Do you think that will be appreciated by this new person in your life? Absolutely! Lay the ground work now. And will your current partner appreciate this – most definitely! Relationships are a work in progress and we can always make new choices.

I wanted to share a lovely poem/prayer by Marianne Williamson from her book Enchanted Love.

(for women) Dear God,

I pray today for the one I love. I pray to see her tenderness, I pray to see her innocence and I pray that she’ll see mine. I pray that she be surrounded by light, that your angels come and bless her. I pray that she’ll be happy and her heart be filled with love. I pray that I might be to her a man who honors and adores her. Her gladdened heart is joy to me.

Thank you God. Amen

(for men)

Dear God,

I pray today for the one I love. I pray to see his tenderness, I pray to see his innocence and I pray that he’ll see mine. I pray that he be surrounded by light, that your angels come and bless him. I pray that he’ll be happy and his heart be filled with love. I pray that I might be to him a woman who honors and adores him. His gladdened heart is joy to me. Thank you God. Amen

And I like to add ” I love him/her. And I love myself.” And so it is.

This is the month of love, I’m sharing my love with others with joyful smiles where ever I go. How can you share your love with others?

Regina Sisco is a Spiritual Life Coach & Divine Matchmaker her website is www.reginasisco.com. You can check out her Valentine’s intuitive reading special at http://lifestreamholisticcoaching.weebly.com/valentine.html. She is also the radio show host of Shining Bright on Voiceamerica.com. You can listen to her archived shows at http://www.voiceamerica.com/show/1986/shining-bright

Are You Ready To Date?

August 31, 2012/in break up, dating, Finding Love, Healthy Relationships, laughter, partnership, relationships, self acceptance, self care, self identity, self love, self respect, Self-doubt, spiritual healer, spirituality, trust, trust yourself/by admin

After a major break-up or divorce it takes time to heal and regain your equilibrium. Many of my clients tell me that they want to be in a relationship again or be married again soon after the relationship has ended. That’s a pleasant idea for down the road… but not too soon.

It’s important to give yourself time to heal and give yourself some perspective on what really happened. He left you, you left him, and life goes on right? Yes it certainly does but what about the quality of your life? What about the quality of your future relationship(s)? That should matter to you. We all know women and men who seem to hop from one relationship to the next without giving themselves time to assess—to really look at what worked and what didn’t work in the relationship.

We all have behavior patterns that are healthy and some that are not healthy at all, especially when it comes to relationships. Here are a few questions to reflect on:

– Do you date the same type of person over and over?

– How do you expect to be treated?

– What do you want out of the relationship?

If you are ready for a committed relationship these things are important to consider. What do you really want out of a relationship? Fun? Sex? Companionship? Do you want commitment, intimacy, mutual support, respect and deep love? If you do you have now just crossed over the line into work and commitment in the relationship to have that true divine union, trust, love, intimacy, and joy. It takes work, you have to know yourself and what you truly want in a relationship. It takes a mutual exchange and a mutual level of commitment – that give and take to support each other in your own individual growth and then as a couple.

The “knowing who you are and what you want” is critical. Women can sometimes loose themselves in the relationship and in their partner and no longer know who they are. Before dating, be prepared– really to do your homework. There is nothing more important than your personal happiness!

Regina Sisco is a Relationship Wellness Expert and national internet Radio Show Host of Shining Bright on VoiceAmerica.com. For more information go to www.lifestreamholisticcoaching.com

Laughter, Fun and Play

July 26, 2012/in Finding Love, fun & play, Healthy Relationships, laughter, self acceptance, self care, self love, spiritual healer, spirituality, transformation specialist/by admin

I hope you are enjoying your summer! Do you remember being a kid and how summers seemed to last forever? Now as an adult they certainly seem to be zooming by! I wanted to remind you how good laughter is for us, and sometimes how we might forget to laugh. I find it amusing when I can laugh at myself for the some of the crazy things I decide to do like listening to my self-critic! That’s always a good indicator to me, when my self-critic is talking loud, to step back and laugh with myself. As adults we can all take “things” so seriously, it’s that reminder to have fun and play especially now in the summer. Even when I’m not really sure what all those “things” are!

I love going for a hike and walking by water, it’s so refreshing and cleansing. Breathing in fresh air, sitting by the water and enjoying nature. This is one of my favorite things to do it’s relaxing, revitalizing and fun all in one visit.

It’s important to take time for self-rejuvenation, and being out in nature is one of the best ways to do that. Do something fun this weekend and enjoy the laughter!