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Are You Loveable? 4 Tips to Help You Feel Loveable – Part 4

womanleapinginairSee my previous blog

Here are some Relationship Indicators to let you know if you don’t feel loveable or deep down really don’t believe you deserve to be loved.

  1.  Do you feel insecure or needy when it comes to relationship? Do you hear yourself saying “I need someone to love me?” Or “Why am I still alone.”

Tip #4

Don’t be too hard on yourself if that is where your thoughts are in that particular moment. What could be some solutions to help you shift how you are feeling?

The feelings of neediness and insecurity come from unresolved issues of the past and any level of resolution that you can have with the past will be helpful.

If your needs were not met in a past relationship—and even with your parents, this lets you know that it is your job to meet your own needs, it’s not anyone else’s including a prospective partner. It’s your job to take care of yourself- physically, emotionally, spiritually and financially.

You can start meeting your needs by making decisions that feel good to you. Don’t just jump into things you really don’t want to do or that don’t feel good to you –especially to please someone else. I assure you that you are worthy of Love. And a real friend or partner will love you no matter what.

This is about you taking care of yourself. Practice things like self-kindness, positive self-talk, self-compassion. When you start paying attention and  making choices that feel good, your ‘neediness’ decreases because you are taking care of yourself. When you take care of yourself you are feeling better and better about you and your life. This also diminishes your insecurities because when you make good decisions it builds your self-confidence!

If you are alone right now- enjoy it. Nothing lasts forever, things always change and evolve.  The happier you are will allow you to attract a partner who is positive and happy too! Wouldn’t that feel fabulous?

 

 Regina Sisco is a certified Life & Relationship Coach. She is an expert with helping people transform their relationship suffering into self-acceptance and relationship bliss. Sign-up for my Free Gift! The Magic Touch – 5 Secrets To Successful Dating Tips on this page.

 

 

Are You Loveable? 4 Tips to Help You Feel Loveable – Part 2

heart candlesSee my previous blog

Here are some Relationship Indicators to let you know if you don’t feel loveable or deep down really don’t believe you deserve to be loved.

  1. Do you need to be in charge? Do you make all the arrangements? Do you ask for input from your partner? Or better still, do you dismiss the input from your partner?

Tip #2

It’s all about love isn’t it? What does loving behavior look like to you? How is love communicated? How does it feel?

The questions above describe someone with a ‘controlling’ personality or at least a strong ‘controlling’ characteristic. Someone who has to know it all, have all the answers, tells others what to do without asking or getting input. You have met that type of person before, right? You may have even been married to one? If you are perfectly honest, you have had some of those behaviors yourself too. Some of the time it is normal:  most of us have a little of that.

However, when it is overpowering, it is out of balance and a less than ideal way of treating another person. It’s disrespectful and inconsiderate. Why do some people behave that way? The short answer is they don’t love themselves very much. They are insecure and full of self-doubt. The controlling behavior is a mask to feel ‘strong’ because inside he/she does not feel that way at all.

Here are few tips to help change this behavior if you have these. Start by being kind to yourself. What is it that you don’t like about yourself? You might ask ‘How do I know what that is?’ Here’s an example. You might know someone that drives you crazy. What is it about that person that drives you crazy? That trait is something you have within yourself that you don’t like about you. Here’s the good news — you can change it!

Maybe your friend doesn’t listen and talks over people. This drives you crazy. Pay attention- do you do that to people? The answer is probably yes, or you do something similar. If you don’t like being treated that way, then don’t treat someone else that way. Make a new choice — this will require some positive self-talk “I am going to be patient when listening to others.” “I am going to slow down and be present, I am interested in what this person is sharing with me.” “I intend to listen with an open mind and not be judgmental or critical.” This is how you create change for the better and how you can change the things that you don’t like about yourself. Make new choices about how you want to feel in your life. Treat yourself better as well as the people around you.

Ask questions in a relationship, have dialogue, and ask for input. Asking questions and communicating is not a weakness:  its called consideration. When you treat yourself in a loving way, you will treat others in a loving way and will be treated that way in return. Love isn’t about control, it’s about sharing. And isn’t that what you seek, sharing and intimacy on all levels?

 

Regina Sisco is a certified Life & Relationship Coach. She is an expert with helping people transform their relationship suffering into self-acceptance and relationship bliss. Sign-up for my Free Gift! The Magic Touch – 5 Secrets To Successful Dating Tips.

 

Are You Loveable? 4 Tips to Help You Feel Loveable – Part 1

LoveThis is a follow-up to my previous blog.

 

  1. Do you give your power away in relationships? Do you let the other person make most of the decisions? Do you trust your own decisions?

Tip #1:

Why do you and others give their power away in relationships? It’s usually because you don’t feel secure or confident with your own decisions. How do you change that? It’s about believing in yourself more. Take a few minutes and write down the accomplishments in your life, there will be several. You made good-even great decisions to reach that accomplishment, correct? Absolutely! So even though you may not feel confident sometimes in a relationship, do this exercise to re-build your confidence and let that carry over into your relationship.  I am sure you have made a good decisions in relationship too, it’s just that human nature tends to focus on the negative instead of the positive. Take your power back and focus on the positive and all you have to give and offer.

 Relationships are about respect, trust, love and compromise. It also takes you showing up and being an active participant in the relationship. It takes two people to make it work, are you ready to experience something different and magnificently better?

 

 

 

Regina Sisco is a certified Life & Relationship Coach. She is an expert with helping people transform their relationship suffering into self-acceptance and relationship bliss.

Is Tenderness The Same As Intimacy?

love kissDo you know how to express tenderness in a relationship? Is tenderness the same as intimacy? Let’s say they go hand in hand. It’s letting yourself feel vulnerable and connected to your partner and with yourself. I know many women and men who do not like to feel vulnerable. It’s not safe, they feel too open and in the past when they have cared that much they were hurt and the wound was deep.

Does that mean you will never let yourself be vulnerable again or allow yourself to share an intimate tender moment with a partner? I certainly hope not because you are cutting yourself off from love – from giving and receiving love. You wouldn’t want to miss that tender touch, that brush of his or her lips across your neck, the melting of stress and the “yes” to love would you?

I hope your response is of course not! Life is to short not to experience the joys, the tenderness and the surprises of love. Saying yes to love takes courage and a commitment to your personal happiness.

Regina Sisco is a Relationship Coach and Divine Matchmaker™ who enjoys helping others to release fear and bring more love into their lives. Her website is www.reginasisco.com and her email is info@reginasisco.com.

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February The Month Of Love 28 Days Of Divine Love Inspiration

heart background    We all know February is the month of Love. Yes it’s about romantic love and sharing that love with another. And it’s also about loving yourself, because if you don’t have a high level of self-love then you won’t have the amazing high quality relationship that you seek if you are single. If you are in a love relationship, this month is an excellent time to renew and rejuvenate your intimacy, communication, and how you treat each other. This month you can set  “the bar” that you hold your relationship up to all year.

I am so excited to share my Divine Love Inspiration with you this month.

 

Day One – Love Inspiration – Trusting Love

The foundation of every relationship is trust and it needs to be nurtured all the time. You need to develop trust for yourself everyday and if you are in a relationship or want to be in a relationship trust needs to be cultivated daily with your partner.

Why is that? Because most people have been hurt or betrayed somewhere in life, and yes this heals over time but the old wound can be triggered unknowingly at the blink of an eye. Trust provides reassurance when old fears come up. You’ve heard the phrase “actions speak louder than words.” To sustain and grow trust in a relationship your loving actions will show your partner how much you mean to them. And if you are single your loving actions to yourself reinforces your own self-love and self-trust and that is priceless!

Regina Sisco is a Relationship Coach and Divine Matchmaker™ who enjoys helping others bring more love into their lives. Her website is www.reginasisco.com and her email is info@reginasisco.com.

 

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For The One I Love (here or on the way)

Love_heartsHappy Valentine’s Day!

I wish you all love today! Those in relationship,  seeking a relationship or happily single.  Love starts with you by appreciating yourself, your gifts and talents, by choosing positive thoughts and expressing positive thoughts to yourself and others.   It takes real intention and focus to practice the positive.  You can do this by being kind to yourself and having compassion for yourself when you mess up.  It happens.  We don’t have to dwell on it – we can let go and forgive ourselves.  Practice compassion.

This holds true for how you treat your partner as well.  If you are seeking a partner by practicing these actions now for yourself you will automatically treat your new partner in that same respectful way.  Do you think that will be appreciated by this new person in your life? Absolutely! Lay the ground work now.  And will your current partner appreciate this – most definitely! Relationships are a work in progress and we can always make new choices.

I wanted to share a lovely poem/prayer by Marianne Williamson from her book Enchanted Love.

(for women) Dear God,

I pray today for the one I love. I pray to see her tenderness, I pray to see her innocence and I pray that she’ll see mine. I pray that she be surrounded by light, that your angels come and bless her. I pray that she’ll be happy and her heart be filled with love. I pray that I might be to her a man who honors and adores her. Her gladdened heart is joy to me.

Thank you God. Amen

(for men)

Dear God,

I pray today for the one I love. I pray to see his tenderness, I pray to see his innocence and I pray that he’ll see mine. I pray that he be surrounded by light, that your angels come and bless him. I pray that he’ll be happy and his heart be filled with love. I pray that I might be to him a woman who honors and adores him. His gladdened heart is joy to me. Thank you God. Amen

And I like to add  ” I love him/her.  And I love myself.”  And so it is.

This is the month of love, I’m sharing my love with others with joyful smiles where ever I go. How can you share your love with others?

Regina Sisco is a Spiritual Life Coach & Divine Matchmaker her website is www.reginasisco.com.  You can check out her Valentine’s intuitive reading special at http://lifestreamholisticcoaching.weebly.com/valentine.html. She is also the radio show host of Shining Bright on Voiceamerica.com. You can listen to her archived shows at http://www.voiceamerica.com/show/1986/shining-bright 

The Decree (Prayer) of Abundance

From The Light of God that I Am.
From The Love of God that I Am.
From The Power of God that I Am.
From The Heart of God that I Am.

I Decree-

I dwell in the midst of Infinite Abundance. The Abundance of God is my Infinite Source.

The River of Life never stops flowing. It flows through me into lavish expression. Good comes to me through unexpected avenues and God works in a myriad of ways to bless me.

I now open my mind to receive my good. Nothing is too good to be true. Nothing is too wonderful to have happen. With God as my Source, nothing amazes me.

I Am not burdened by thoughts of past or future. One is gone. The other is yet to come.

By the power of my belief, coupled with my purposeful fearless actions and my deep rapport with God, my future is created and my abundance made manifest.

I ask and accept that I am lifted in this and every moment into Higher Truth. My mind is quiet.

From this day forward I give freely and fearlessly into life and Life gives back to me with magnificent increase. Blessings come in expected and unexpected ways. God provides for me in wondrous ways.

I AM indeed grateful. And I let it be so.
(Author Unknown)

 

Focusing on the Positive

In this video I talk about focusing on the positive. It’s always helpful to practice feeling good, hopeful and optimistic. I know a lot of us do, so when we have our down days focus on something that feels good like your kids, pets, friends or a favorite song. The longer you can focus on the “the feeling good,” the longer you can sustain it. Enjoy! Regina

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Getting Ready For Love -How To Bring Love In Teleclass

Cathleen McCandless (author of the number one Feng Shui book in America - Feng Shui That Takes Sense) and I are doing a workshop/teleclass called Getting Ready For Love – How to Bring Love in. I will share tips to clear away old emotional baggage and Cathleen will share tips to clear away old physical items and clutter,  that will help to bring love in. You will walk away with useful tips to use immediately to bring love in. Join us Tuesday October 16, 2012 from 6-8pm pacific time. Cost – wow – only $97!! Register NOW!!!

Tuesday evening October 16, 2012, from 6 –8 pm pacific time.  Cathleen has been a guest on her radio show- Shining Bright on VoiceAmerica.com several times and has the #1 Feng Shui book – Feng Shui that Makes Sense, in America.

Regina will be sharing tips and tools to do some internal housekeeping like getting rid of old habits and fears so you can allow love in.  And Cathleen will talk about feng shui tips and techniques for the home and bedroom that will bring love to you. How much fun will that be! This class will also have tips for those who are ready to enhance your current relationship.

Here is what we will cover:
Regina will  share tips and discuss:
Are you really ready for love?
Time to forgive past hurts
Moving forward – opening your heart

Cathleen will share tips and discuss: 
Setting the stage for love
Enhancing the relationship sector of the home
Space clearing to welcome love into you home and into your life.

What you will take away from this class are tools that you can use right away – a technique to forgive yourself and past hurts, new agreements  for yourself to create clarity in your (new) relationship, feng shui tips to enhance your renewed willingness for love in your home and bedroom!

Mark your calendars  for 
Tuesday evening October 16, 2012
 From 6-8pm pacific time7-9pm mountain time, 9-11pm eastern time

To register make payment of $97.00
Click on the Buy Now Paypal button below and an email confirmation will be sent to you with the call-in information. Send any questions to Regina at info@reginasisco.com, type “feng shui” in the subject line and she will answer your questions.

You’ll also receive a Free recording of the call to keep and listen to these valuable tips again and again!

If you aren’t able to attend this class but would like to receive the inspiring information, register for the class and a recording will be sent to you!

Register here – save the date for October 16

Only $97 for valuable tools and tips you can implement right away to bring love in! How exciting is that?!!  Register now.

How To Prepare For A Conscious Relationship

What are the steps you need to take to move into a conscious relationship, a fifth dimensional relationship – a true divine relationship?  As we are leaving the third dimension it is time to release the confines of the ego and assist the ego and ourselves with embracing our divine I AM presence.  This process starts with preparing and transforming yourself first, then you can carry these traits and ways of being into a true divine relationship.

This will be an experiential workshop of deep work with our ego, our soul and our divine I AM presence.  We will be giving our ego a new role, one which supports our divine I AM presence, soul and you into the fifth dimension.

The result will be new miraculous levels of freedom in your life.  You will recognize the workings of the ego and now have the tools to maintain and support it’s transformation process through love and safety.  This opens the gateway to the fifth dimension of unconditional love and acceptance for yourself and others. Can you imagine loving yourself that fully and completely?  Then welcoming a partner into that space?  This is where a true divine relationship begins! This will also assist with improving current relationships too.

Check in with your own internal guidance about this workshop. You may not feel in alignment yet for this course.  Go within and ask.  This will be a beautiful transformational journey for us all.  I am actively in receipt of content for the workshop from my guides and the universe, and will be up to and including the day of the event!  Talk about hot off the press!  This will be cutting edge information I am receiving from the universe.

I look forward to sharing this heart space with you.
Many Blessings,
Regina Sisco

When:      October 26, 27 & 28, 2012
Friday:     Oct 26   Free Introduction 7:00pm -8:30pm
Saturday: Oct 27   Workshop 10:00am – 5:00pm
Sunday:   Oct 28   Private one-hour healing sessions with me


Where: Unity Church of Santa Barbara
227 E Arrellaga Street
Santa Barbara, CA 93101
805.966.2239
www.santabarbaraunity.org

Cost: Saturday Workshop $175
Sunday – Private one-hour
Healing session $150

Please contact Phyliss Cohen, Event Coordinator for Spiritual Enlightened Professionals –
805-708-8228,  phyliss3x3@yahoo.com for registration.

Regina Sisco is an expert in life coaching, personal and spiritual development, and alternative and energetic healing. A lifelong teacher, she leads classes and workshops in self-development. Regina is a practitioner of Theta Healing, a system of spiritual, physical, and emotional healing. As a Relationship Wellness Expert she specializes in working with women who are healing from divorce or relationship breakup. Her website is www.reginasisco.com. She is also the National Internet Radio Show Host of Shining Bright on VoiceAmerica.com. Regina has over 60,000 listeners per month and counting!  To listen to her show go to: http://www.voiceamerica.com/show/1986/shining-bright