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Are You Loveable? 4 Tips to Help You Feel Loveable – Part 2

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Here are some Relationship Indicators to let you know if you don’t feel loveable or deep down really don’t believe you deserve to be loved.

  1. Do you need to be in charge? Do you make all the arrangements? Do you ask for input from your partner? Or better still, do you dismiss the input from your partner?

Tip #2

It’s all about love isn’t it? What does loving behavior look like to you? How is love communicated? How does it feel?

The questions above describe someone with a ‘controlling’ personality or at least a strong ‘controlling’ characteristic. Someone who has to know it all, have all the answers, tells others what to do without asking or getting input. You have met that type of person before, right? You may have even been married to one? If you are perfectly honest, you have had some of those behaviors yourself too. Some of the time it is normal:  most of us have a little of that.

However, when it is overpowering, it is out of balance and a less than ideal way of treating another person. It’s disrespectful and inconsiderate. Why do some people behave that way? The short answer is they don’t love themselves very much. They are insecure and full of self-doubt. The controlling behavior is a mask to feel ‘strong’ because inside he/she does not feel that way at all.

Here are few tips to help change this behavior if you have these. Start by being kind to yourself. What is it that you don’t like about yourself? You might ask ‘How do I know what that is?’ Here’s an example. You might know someone that drives you crazy. What is it about that person that drives you crazy? That trait is something you have within yourself that you don’t like about you. Here’s the good news — you can change it!

Maybe your friend doesn’t listen and talks over people. This drives you crazy. Pay attention- do you do that to people? The answer is probably yes, or you do something similar. If you don’t like being treated that way, then don’t treat someone else that way. Make a new choice — this will require some positive self-talk “I am going to be patient when listening to others.” “I am going to slow down and be present, I am interested in what this person is sharing with me.” “I intend to listen with an open mind and not be judgmental or critical.” This is how you create change for the better and how you can change the things that you don’t like about yourself. Make new choices about how you want to feel in your life. Treat yourself better as well as the people around you.

Ask questions in a relationship, have dialogue, and ask for input. Asking questions and communicating is not a weakness:  its called consideration. When you treat yourself in a loving way, you will treat others in a loving way and will be treated that way in return. Love isn’t about control, it’s about sharing. And isn’t that what you seek, sharing and intimacy on all levels?

 

Regina Sisco is a certified Life & Relationship Coach. She is an expert with helping people transform their relationship suffering into self-acceptance and relationship bliss. Sign-up for my Free Gift! The Magic Touch – 5 Secrets To Successful Dating Tips.

 

Being in the Presence of Love?

I_love_all_that_I_am copyDo you know what being in the presence of love feels like? It feels like honor, trust and surety. You are with a person you can rely on, someone who supports you no matter what is happening. Your partner doesn’t always have to agree with you, or even fully understand your position on something but knowing he/she is always there for you is the presence of love.

It’s a gift knowing you can have someone who shines their light for you and you for them. No one has to be right or wrong, it can be just what is – an experience in this moment in time when you or your partner are growing or releasing some old pattern that is no longer useful.

Being in the presence of love is holding the space of love for your partner and yourself – which may be a bit more challenging. The presence and space of love is no judgment or guilt or doubt. It is a space where all things are possible. Imagine what this feels like — a safe space for love.

Regina Sisco is a Relationship Coach and Divine Matchmaker™ who enjoys helping others to release fear and bring more love into their lives. Her website is www.reginasisco.com and her email is info@reginasisco.com.

 

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February The Month Of Love 28 Days Of Divine Love Inspiration

heart background    We all know February is the month of Love. Yes it’s about romantic love and sharing that love with another. And it’s also about loving yourself, because if you don’t have a high level of self-love then you won’t have the amazing high quality relationship that you seek if you are single. If you are in a love relationship, this month is an excellent time to renew and rejuvenate your intimacy, communication, and how you treat each other. This month you can set  “the bar” that you hold your relationship up to all year.

I am so excited to share my Divine Love Inspiration with you this month.

 

Day One – Love Inspiration – Trusting Love

The foundation of every relationship is trust and it needs to be nurtured all the time. You need to develop trust for yourself everyday and if you are in a relationship or want to be in a relationship trust needs to be cultivated daily with your partner.

Why is that? Because most people have been hurt or betrayed somewhere in life, and yes this heals over time but the old wound can be triggered unknowingly at the blink of an eye. Trust provides reassurance when old fears come up. You’ve heard the phrase “actions speak louder than words.” To sustain and grow trust in a relationship your loving actions will show your partner how much you mean to them. And if you are single your loving actions to yourself reinforces your own self-love and self-trust and that is priceless!

Regina Sisco is a Relationship Coach and Divine Matchmaker™ who enjoys helping others bring more love into their lives. Her website is www.reginasisco.com and her email is info@reginasisco.com.

 

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Getting Ready For Love -How To Bring Love In Teleclass

Cathleen McCandless (author of the number one Feng Shui book in America - Feng Shui That Takes Sense) and I are doing a workshop/teleclass called Getting Ready For Love – How to Bring Love in. I will share tips to clear away old emotional baggage and Cathleen will share tips to clear away old physical items and clutter,  that will help to bring love in. You will walk away with useful tips to use immediately to bring love in. Join us Tuesday October 16, 2012 from 6-8pm pacific time. Cost – wow – only $97!! Register NOW!!!

Tuesday evening October 16, 2012, from 6 –8 pm pacific time.  Cathleen has been a guest on her radio show- Shining Bright on VoiceAmerica.com several times and has the #1 Feng Shui book – Feng Shui that Makes Sense, in America.

Regina will be sharing tips and tools to do some internal housekeeping like getting rid of old habits and fears so you can allow love in.  And Cathleen will talk about feng shui tips and techniques for the home and bedroom that will bring love to you. How much fun will that be! This class will also have tips for those who are ready to enhance your current relationship.

Here is what we will cover:
Regina will  share tips and discuss:
Are you really ready for love?
Time to forgive past hurts
Moving forward – opening your heart

Cathleen will share tips and discuss: 
Setting the stage for love
Enhancing the relationship sector of the home
Space clearing to welcome love into you home and into your life.

What you will take away from this class are tools that you can use right away – a technique to forgive yourself and past hurts, new agreements  for yourself to create clarity in your (new) relationship, feng shui tips to enhance your renewed willingness for love in your home and bedroom!

Mark your calendars  for 
Tuesday evening October 16, 2012
 From 6-8pm pacific time7-9pm mountain time, 9-11pm eastern time

To register make payment of $97.00
Click on the Buy Now Paypal button below and an email confirmation will be sent to you with the call-in information. Send any questions to Regina at info@reginasisco.com, type “feng shui” in the subject line and she will answer your questions.

You’ll also receive a Free recording of the call to keep and listen to these valuable tips again and again!

If you aren’t able to attend this class but would like to receive the inspiring information, register for the class and a recording will be sent to you!

Register here – save the date for October 16

Only $97 for valuable tools and tips you can implement right away to bring love in! How exciting is that?!!  Register now.

Lack of Self-worth

Today I want to share a video with you on Self-Worth or really I mean lack of self-worth. Most every human has some feelings of not feeling good enough, worthy enough or deserving. It’s not the truth. This is our ego, who loves us and is trying to protect us in some way from being hurt. This however, keeps us separate from our infinite connection to the Creator where we are one and whole and tied to the entire universe. This separateness, which can feel like emptiness or longing, is our desire to truly believe we are connected to our higher selves and the Creator (or whatever term works for you). We want to be able to feel that unconditional love because we haven’t found it within ourselves yet. So we seek outside ourselves in a variety of relationships or hobbies. Look no further. Look in the mirror and love that precious being who is looking back at you with all your heart.  Do it every day and soon you will never feel alone or separate again. It is your job to love yourself fully.  If you don’t, how will anyone else?
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Regina Sisco is a Relationship Wellness Expert and national internet Radio Show Host of Shining Bright on VoiceAmerica.com. For more information go to her website atwww.reginasisco.com and to listen to her radio show go to http://www.voiceamerica.com/show/1986/shining-bright