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Are You Loveable? 4 Tips to Help You Feel Loveable – Part 2

heart candlesSee my previous blog

Here are some Relationship Indicators to let you know if you don’t feel loveable or deep down really don’t believe you deserve to be loved.

  1. Do you need to be in charge? Do you make all the arrangements? Do you ask for input from your partner? Or better still, do you dismiss the input from your partner?

Tip #2

It’s all about love isn’t it? What does loving behavior look like to you? How is love communicated? How does it feel?

The questions above describe someone with a ‘controlling’ personality or at least a strong ‘controlling’ characteristic. Someone who has to know it all, have all the answers, tells others what to do without asking or getting input. You have met that type of person before, right? You may have even been married to one? If you are perfectly honest, you have had some of those behaviors yourself too. Some of the time it is normal:  most of us have a little of that.

However, when it is overpowering, it is out of balance and a less than ideal way of treating another person. It’s disrespectful and inconsiderate. Why do some people behave that way? The short answer is they don’t love themselves very much. They are insecure and full of self-doubt. The controlling behavior is a mask to feel ‘strong’ because inside he/she does not feel that way at all.

Here are few tips to help change this behavior if you have these. Start by being kind to yourself. What is it that you don’t like about yourself? You might ask ‘How do I know what that is?’ Here’s an example. You might know someone that drives you crazy. What is it about that person that drives you crazy? That trait is something you have within yourself that you don’t like about you. Here’s the good news — you can change it!

Maybe your friend doesn’t listen and talks over people. This drives you crazy. Pay attention- do you do that to people? The answer is probably yes, or you do something similar. If you don’t like being treated that way, then don’t treat someone else that way. Make a new choice — this will require some positive self-talk “I am going to be patient when listening to others.” “I am going to slow down and be present, I am interested in what this person is sharing with me.” “I intend to listen with an open mind and not be judgmental or critical.” This is how you create change for the better and how you can change the things that you don’t like about yourself. Make new choices about how you want to feel in your life. Treat yourself better as well as the people around you.

Ask questions in a relationship, have dialogue, and ask for input. Asking questions and communicating is not a weakness:  its called consideration. When you treat yourself in a loving way, you will treat others in a loving way and will be treated that way in return. Love isn’t about control, it’s about sharing. And isn’t that what you seek, sharing and intimacy on all levels?

 

Regina Sisco is a certified Life & Relationship Coach. She is an expert with helping people transform their relationship suffering into self-acceptance and relationship bliss. Sign-up for my Free Gift! The Magic Touch – 5 Secrets To Successful Dating Tips.

 

How To Prepare For A Conscious Relationship

What are the steps you need to take to move into a conscious relationship, a fifth dimensional relationship – a true divine relationship?  As we are leaving the third dimension it is time to release the confines of the ego and assist the ego and ourselves with embracing our divine I AM presence.  This process starts with preparing and transforming yourself first, then you can carry these traits and ways of being into a true divine relationship.

This will be an experiential workshop of deep work with our ego, our soul and our divine I AM presence.  We will be giving our ego a new role, one which supports our divine I AM presence, soul and you into the fifth dimension.

The result will be new miraculous levels of freedom in your life.  You will recognize the workings of the ego and now have the tools to maintain and support it’s transformation process through love and safety.  This opens the gateway to the fifth dimension of unconditional love and acceptance for yourself and others. Can you imagine loving yourself that fully and completely?  Then welcoming a partner into that space?  This is where a true divine relationship begins! This will also assist with improving current relationships too.

Check in with your own internal guidance about this workshop. You may not feel in alignment yet for this course.  Go within and ask.  This will be a beautiful transformational journey for us all.  I am actively in receipt of content for the workshop from my guides and the universe, and will be up to and including the day of the event!  Talk about hot off the press!  This will be cutting edge information I am receiving from the universe.

I look forward to sharing this heart space with you.
Many Blessings,
Regina Sisco

When:      October 26, 27 & 28, 2012
Friday:     Oct 26   Free Introduction 7:00pm -8:30pm
Saturday: Oct 27   Workshop 10:00am – 5:00pm
Sunday:   Oct 28   Private one-hour healing sessions with me


Where: Unity Church of Santa Barbara
227 E Arrellaga Street
Santa Barbara, CA 93101
805.966.2239
www.santabarbaraunity.org

Cost: Saturday Workshop $175
Sunday – Private one-hour
Healing session $150

Please contact Phyliss Cohen, Event Coordinator for Spiritual Enlightened Professionals –
805-708-8228,  phyliss3x3@yahoo.com for registration.

Regina Sisco is an expert in life coaching, personal and spiritual development, and alternative and energetic healing. A lifelong teacher, she leads classes and workshops in self-development. Regina is a practitioner of Theta Healing, a system of spiritual, physical, and emotional healing. As a Relationship Wellness Expert she specializes in working with women who are healing from divorce or relationship breakup. Her website is www.reginasisco.com. She is also the National Internet Radio Show Host of Shining Bright on VoiceAmerica.com. Regina has over 60,000 listeners per month and counting!  To listen to her show go to: http://www.voiceamerica.com/show/1986/shining-bright