A Message from Archangel Michael: Changing Times

 

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You are living in changing and somewhat challenging times. The turmoil has been building for quite some time has it not? Your government is divisive and does not work for the people. There are too many hidden agendas and special interest groups that buy your representatives. Even those groups who are trying to do good- fighting for healthy food and non-GMO additives, this is a system that is broken and needs repair.

Ideas are coming forward for a new system that is fair and equitable for all people not just the special interest groups. The days of greed are over. No longer will people be able to be bought in your government. They will be indicted and go to jail along with the special interest groups. This system is upside down. Your Declaration of Independence is suppose to be for the people. Not for the people by way of greed, manipulation and dishonesty.

A new day is dawning. Rebirth is happening on planet earth. The known paradigm of fear and greed is shifting – have you noticed? Have you noticed when there are tragedies more people are helping each other, taking care of each other and creating a community of love? They may not know that is what they are creating but their acts of kindness and generosity are all acts of Love. You may be noticing that your news channels promote fear. Through people’s input they are beginning to promote and share stories of goodness and kindness. Well done for letting your voice be heard! Continue on with sharing your voice, the goodness of people needs to be heard more than the negative. From what we see in the higher realms humanity has far more kindness and compassion within them than hate and fear. And sometimes people forget that because of what they see on the news. Read and listen to other sources that are positive and promote kindness, being of service and Joy.

The new paradigm is love, service, joy, kindness, tolerance, peace and harmony. It has already started. The purging of the old has begun. You are seeing that on your news as well. The mistreatment of women and children has gone on far too long with those who have been in power. This will not be allowed to exist in the new paradigm and these changes are also in progress. Those who have organized and participated in these actions will face the consequences and if necessary will be arrested. The old cannot exist with the new.

A new day has dawned. The new paradigm of Love has already begun. The purging of the old paradigm is underway. You have a saying “out with the old, in with the new.’ That is exactly where we are at this moment and making excellent progress on both fronts. The purging will continue so that the energy of love and kindness shines even more.

What will help you during these times?   Look into tools for transforming chaos. Be grateful for your life, especially the small things. Express gratitude every day. Be grateful for the dawning of this new day!

Beloveds, walk in Joy with me, I am with you always.

Archangel Michael

Regina Sisco is a channel for the higher realms including the Elemental Kingdom, a Multi-dimensional Healer and Spiritual Life Coach helping her clients to Become Their Authentic Selves.

 

 

Freedom

 

5 women jumping  for joyWhat would if feel like to be free? Free from worry, struggle stress, overwhelm, financial worries. Feeling out of balance, over whelmed, confused and at times powerless.

What if life were significantly easier? The financial worries are gone, relationship issues are cleared and healed, and you’re doing something you love? Can you imagine that? What if you had time to give back to children, animals, the earth, getting water to people who don’t have access. Did you know that there are still people on this earth that don’t have electricity or clean water- plumbing or in-home toilets? How is that even possible? Apple just came out with what Iphone 8? I don’t even know, I don’t have one. I heard it may cost $1000. What if we all pitched in say 100 to get water and electricity to these remote areas, so everyone has electricity, plumbing, running water in their home and a toilet?

We are all one. And I am not saying give up your cell phone but how about if we expand and start thinking beyond our selves or our immediate circle and start helping others.

Now our hearts open when we see the tragedy and devastation of the hurricanes, earthquakes and fires and we want to help others. It’s fantastic how kind-heated we are when we open our hearts to those in need.

How about if we keep it that way and keep helping each other consistently? Let’s not wait for a tragedy because it’s happening in our inner cities and around the world. We are all brothers and sisters. We really aren’t any different. We all love our families, our kids and we want them to do well. It doesn’t matter what color your skin is or what language you speak.

Let’s lift up above the fray and keep this going, no matter what negative fear the news wants to tell you. Have you realized yet that the news organizations just make stuff up? Some news is true to some extent and some of it just comes out of thin air. Use your discernment. If it doesn’t feel right or sound like the truth then listen to your gut and turn the channel. Meditate and ask for guidance and clarification. Be true to yourself and trust.

True Freedom comes from within you, not outside of you. Claim your freedom now, you deserve it!

 

Regina Sisco is a channel for the higher realms including the Elemental Kingdom, a Multi-dimensional Healer and Spiritual Life Coach helping her clients to Become Their Authentic Selves.

 

The Whispers of the Elemental Kingdom

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There is a soft breeze blowing, the leaves are gently clapping and waving hello. Dragonflies are humming about as the sun reflects off their iridescent bodies and the butterflies are gliding around. This is nature and the elemental spirits all around us. I enjoying feeling the sun on my face and the breeze on my arms.

This is the essence of nature in perfect harmony and balance. A snapshot of the elemental kingdom. I am outdoors in nature paying attention to the sounds, movement and delights all around me. These are the nature spirits sharing themselves with me and you. They want to come forward and assist humanity now with developing a deeper connection within ourselves – with our true essences which is connected to all of nature and the earth.

The elementals are here to support the earth to help with staying strong, vital and in balance. They are also here to assist humanity with their awakening process and they want to make themselves more known to humans so they can help them to be in harmony and connect with the earth. We are of the earth and it is our job to honor and protect her and to be grateful for all that she provides for us.

It is time for those who take advantage of her and mistreat her to stop. It’s time for the rest of us to be in a state of gratitude for this beautiful earth and to send a prayer of love to the earth and all life on earth. It’s time for everyone to be aware of treating this planet respectfully. This helps tremendously to bring peace and harmony to the planet.

It will help with the storms, and earthquakes during this “resetting process” with the earth. This is a time of purging and cleansing it will open to a new dawn and a new brighter day for us all. There will be balance on all levels and equanimity for all life on earth, free from suffering and struggle.

It will be a process for everyone to not be in fear. Keep yourself grounded to the earth and take three slow deep breaths as often as needed. You are love and you are loved by the universe.

 

Regina Sisco is a channel  for the higher realms including the Elemental Kingdom, a Multi-dimensional Healer and Spiritual Life Coach helping her clients to Become Their Authentic Selves.

 

Are You Loveable? 4 Tips to Help You Feel Loveable – Part 4

womanleapinginairSee my previous blog

Here are some Relationship Indicators to let you know if you don’t feel loveable or deep down really don’t believe you deserve to be loved.

  1.  Do you feel insecure or needy when it comes to relationship? Do you hear yourself saying “I need someone to love me?” Or “Why am I still alone.”

Tip #4

Don’t be too hard on yourself if that is where your thoughts are in that particular moment. What could be some solutions to help you shift how you are feeling?

The feelings of neediness and insecurity come from unresolved issues of the past and any level of resolution that you can have with the past will be helpful.

If your needs were not met in a past relationship—and even with your parents, this lets you know that it is your job to meet your own needs, it’s not anyone else’s including a prospective partner. It’s your job to take care of yourself- physically, emotionally, spiritually and financially.

You can start meeting your needs by making decisions that feel good to you. Don’t just jump into things you really don’t want to do or that don’t feel good to you –especially to please someone else. I assure you that you are worthy of Love. And a real friend or partner will love you no matter what.

This is about you taking care of yourself. Practice things like self-kindness, positive self-talk, self-compassion. When you start paying attention and  making choices that feel good, your ‘neediness’ decreases because you are taking care of yourself. When you take care of yourself you are feeling better and better about you and your life. This also diminishes your insecurities because when you make good decisions it builds your self-confidence!

If you are alone right now- enjoy it. Nothing lasts forever, things always change and evolve.  The happier you are will allow you to attract a partner who is positive and happy too! Wouldn’t that feel fabulous?

 

 Regina Sisco is a certified Life & Relationship Coach. She is an expert with helping people transform their relationship suffering into self-acceptance and relationship bliss. Sign-up for my Free Gift! The Magic Touch – 5 Secrets To Successful Dating Tips on this page.

 

 

Are You Loveable? 4 Tips to Help You Feel Loveable – Part 3

forgiveSee my previous blog

Here are some Relationship Indicators to let you know if you don’t feel loveable or deep down really don’t believe you deserve to be loved.

  1.  When you feel the relationship is getting hard and communication is difficult for you, do you sabotage the relationship (have bad behavior like saying or doing something cruel) so the other person will end it?

Tip #3

There can be so much to say about Question 3. I have talked with several clients who have been on the receiving end of this behavior and those who have done it.

Someone who is unable to communicate how they feel is afraid, deeply afraid of being hurt. They are unable to take responsibility for their behavior and feelings, so they act out and force the other person to take the action. This person is in need of deep compassion. Not that I am suggesting that you stay with him/her, I would not recommend that at all. The healthiest thing is to end the relationship and move on.

If you are the person who is struggling, the better approach with integrity, is to end/exit the relationship without the hurtful words or behavior. Understand that you have deep seeded issues that are toxic. Bouncing from relationship to relationship is extremely unhealthy and you likely have the belief that you don’t deserve to be loved and you’re afraid of doing any type of self-reflection to heal so that you are able to raise your self-esteem, self-respect and self-confidence.

Without at least an average (and ideally above average) feeling of these three characteristics I listed above, connecting with another in a meaningful way and expressing healthy love will not be possible.

How can you start turning this around and allow yourself to be and feel loveable?

It is probable that you have had some hurtful experiences in the past that have not been healed. You may be blaming yourself, the other person or people, and you may feel shame. These are two very powerful feelings that reinforce low self-esteem and self-worth. Being able to forgive yourself and others is one of the most beneficial ways to free yourself from pain and suffering. When you are in that state of pain and suffering you can feel disconnected from your true self, which creates lack of clarity.

In the Hawaiian culture they have a technique called “Ho’oponopono” which they use to forgive and seek healing and freedom. Think of the person you were hurt by and repeat:

I’m Sorry, Please Forgive Me, Thank You, I Love You.

And you may be thinking, “Regina, I was hurt by that other person, why would I say I’m sorry.” Because this is a higher spiritual principle and there is probably something you want to be forgiven for also.

Repeat this phrase/mantra over and over again until you feel lighter.

“I’m Sorry, Please Forgive Me, Thank You, I Love You.”

If you have time to do it 10-15 minutes a day would be good. This may take several days, or weeks, it really depends on you and your focus. It does take focus and a willingness to be free of the pain and suffering. It works.

I will use this when I hear of something negative on the news to help shift the energy of that particular situation.

It’s time to free yourself and let yourself feel loved!

  

Regina Sisco is a certified Life & Relationship Coach. She is an expert with helping people transform their relationship suffering into self-acceptance and relationship bliss. Sign-up for my Free Gift! The Magic Touch – 5 Secrets To Successful Dating Tips on this page.

 

Are You Loveable? 4 Tips to Help You Feel Loveable – Part 2

heart candlesSee my previous blog

Here are some Relationship Indicators to let you know if you don’t feel loveable or deep down really don’t believe you deserve to be loved.

  1. Do you need to be in charge? Do you make all the arrangements? Do you ask for input from your partner? Or better still, do you dismiss the input from your partner?

Tip #2

It’s all about love isn’t it? What does loving behavior look like to you? How is love communicated? How does it feel?

The questions above describe someone with a ‘controlling’ personality or at least a strong ‘controlling’ characteristic. Someone who has to know it all, have all the answers, tells others what to do without asking or getting input. You have met that type of person before, right? You may have even been married to one? If you are perfectly honest, you have had some of those behaviors yourself too. Some of the time it is normal:  most of us have a little of that.

However, when it is overpowering, it is out of balance and a less than ideal way of treating another person. It’s disrespectful and inconsiderate. Why do some people behave that way? The short answer is they don’t love themselves very much. They are insecure and full of self-doubt. The controlling behavior is a mask to feel ‘strong’ because inside he/she does not feel that way at all.

Here are few tips to help change this behavior if you have these. Start by being kind to yourself. What is it that you don’t like about yourself? You might ask ‘How do I know what that is?’ Here’s an example. You might know someone that drives you crazy. What is it about that person that drives you crazy? That trait is something you have within yourself that you don’t like about you. Here’s the good news — you can change it!

Maybe your friend doesn’t listen and talks over people. This drives you crazy. Pay attention- do you do that to people? The answer is probably yes, or you do something similar. If you don’t like being treated that way, then don’t treat someone else that way. Make a new choice — this will require some positive self-talk “I am going to be patient when listening to others.” “I am going to slow down and be present, I am interested in what this person is sharing with me.” “I intend to listen with an open mind and not be judgmental or critical.” This is how you create change for the better and how you can change the things that you don’t like about yourself. Make new choices about how you want to feel in your life. Treat yourself better as well as the people around you.

Ask questions in a relationship, have dialogue, and ask for input. Asking questions and communicating is not a weakness:  its called consideration. When you treat yourself in a loving way, you will treat others in a loving way and will be treated that way in return. Love isn’t about control, it’s about sharing. And isn’t that what you seek, sharing and intimacy on all levels?

 

Regina Sisco is a certified Life & Relationship Coach. She is an expert with helping people transform their relationship suffering into self-acceptance and relationship bliss. Sign-up for my Free Gift! The Magic Touch – 5 Secrets To Successful Dating Tips.

 

Are You Loveable? 4 Tips to Help You Feel Loveable – Part 1

LoveThis is a follow-up to my previous blog.

 

  1. Do you give your power away in relationships? Do you let the other person make most of the decisions? Do you trust your own decisions?

Tip #1:

Why do you and others give their power away in relationships? It’s usually because you don’t feel secure or confident with your own decisions. How do you change that? It’s about believing in yourself more. Take a few minutes and write down the accomplishments in your life, there will be several. You made good-even great decisions to reach that accomplishment, correct? Absolutely! So even though you may not feel confident sometimes in a relationship, do this exercise to re-build your confidence and let that carry over into your relationship.  I am sure you have made a good decisions in relationship too, it’s just that human nature tends to focus on the negative instead of the positive. Take your power back and focus on the positive and all you have to give and offer.

 Relationships are about respect, trust, love and compromise. It also takes you showing up and being an active participant in the relationship. It takes two people to make it work, are you ready to experience something different and magnificently better?

 

 

 

Regina Sisco is a certified Life & Relationship Coach. She is an expert with helping people transform their relationship suffering into self-acceptance and relationship bliss.

Are You Loveable? 4 Tips to Help You Feel Loveable

Here are some Relationship Indicators to let you know if you don’t feel loveable or deep down really don’t believe you deserve to be loved.

1. Do you give your poweholding handsr away in relationships? Do you let the other person make most of the decisions? Do you trust your own decisions?
2. Do you need to be in charge? Do you make all the arrangements? Do you ask for input from your partner? Or better still, do you dismiss the input from your partner?
3. When you feel the relationship is getting hard and communication is difficult for you, do you sabatoge the relationship (have bad behavior like saying or doing something cruel) so the other person will end it?
4. Do you feel insecure or needy when it comes to relationship? Do you hear yourself saying “I need someone to love me.” Or “Why am I still alone.”

During this month of Love in February I will be giving weekly tips to answer these four Relationship Indicators. Share your stories with me and I will provide advice directly to you on my blog.

Regina Sisco is a certified Life & Relationship Coach. She is an expert with helping people transform their relationship suffering into self-acceptance and relationship bliss. Regina can be reached at info@reginasisco.com.

 

Being in the Presence of Love?

I_love_all_that_I_am copyDo you know what being in the presence of love feels like? It feels like honor, trust and surety. You are with a person you can rely on, someone who supports you no matter what is happening. Your partner doesn’t always have to agree with you, or even fully understand your position on something but knowing he/she is always there for you is the presence of love.

It’s a gift knowing you can have someone who shines their light for you and you for them. No one has to be right or wrong, it can be just what is – an experience in this moment in time when you or your partner are growing or releasing some old pattern that is no longer useful.

Being in the presence of love is holding the space of love for your partner and yourself – which may be a bit more challenging. The presence and space of love is no judgment or guilt or doubt. It is a space where all things are possible. Imagine what this feels like — a safe space for love.

Regina Sisco is a Relationship Coach and Divine Matchmaker™ who enjoys helping others to release fear and bring more love into their lives. Her website is www.reginasisco.com and her email is info@reginasisco.com.

 

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Is Tenderness The Same As Intimacy?

love kissDo you know how to express tenderness in a relationship? Is tenderness the same as intimacy? Let’s say they go hand in hand. It’s letting yourself feel vulnerable and connected to your partner and with yourself. I know many women and men who do not like to feel vulnerable. It’s not safe, they feel too open and in the past when they have cared that much they were hurt and the wound was deep.

Does that mean you will never let yourself be vulnerable again or allow yourself to share an intimate tender moment with a partner? I certainly hope not because you are cutting yourself off from love – from giving and receiving love. You wouldn’t want to miss that tender touch, that brush of his or her lips across your neck, the melting of stress and the “yes” to love would you?

I hope your response is of course not! Life is to short not to experience the joys, the tenderness and the surprises of love. Saying yes to love takes courage and a commitment to your personal happiness.

Regina Sisco is a Relationship Coach and Divine Matchmaker™ who enjoys helping others to release fear and bring more love into their lives. Her website is www.reginasisco.com and her email is info@reginasisco.com.

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